The One Fat-Loss Mistake I *Desperately* Want You to Avoid

It single-handedly damaged my health, vitality, hormones, and sanity

The One Fat-Loss Mistake I *Desperately* Want You to Avoid
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“What happened to you?” my mom’s face went pale.

“Ohh, nothing. This is part of the process, mom.”, I lugged my bags in. “Also, I’m in an oversized hoodie.”, I added.

Her ashen face should have set off danger alarms — but it didn’t.

Obsessed with my “fat loss”, I soldiered on — with black coffee, bland oats, and brutal cardio.

I followed the fat-loss “gurus” (I’d watched/read) with rigid austerity:

  • Religiously tracking my calorie intake.
  • Ignoring the torturous cravings.
  • Doing near-daily ab workouts.
  • Intense cardio 3–4x a week.
  • Lifting heavy in the gym.
  • Weighing myself daily.

Despite all that, I ended up anorexic-looking— not ripped as I’d long envisioned. Alongside body fat — I’d lost valuable muscle mass, strength, and immunity.

Rage, disappointment, and “Where did I(t) go wrong?” doubt plagued me.

A year later, I found the answer.

From fat to skinny (Photos of/by the author)

In that year, I rebuilt my lost muscle mass — and studied the fundamentals of fitness and fat loss.

Excited to test the “answer”, I went on another cut.

This cut was enjoyable and effective. Without excruciating cardio or bland meals, I got “ripped.”

All because I avoided the One core mistake I’d made the first time…

My successful 2nd cut (Photos of/by the author)

The mistake of not realizing that — The Fastest Way to Lose Body Fat Is to Actually Lose It Slowly

Before you abuse me for hyping you up “just” for this, let me expand:

Rushing your fat-loss (in)directly leads to…

  • Severe calorie restriction that hampers your metabolism, immunity, and hormones— all of which, ironically, slow down your fat loss.
  • Excessive cardio that burns your muscle mass for fuel along with fat. It also hampers your weight-training recovery.
  • Lower overall nutrition that affects your hormones, metabolism, and nutrient partitioning — leading to a higher “muscle/fat” burn ratio.
  • Over-reliance on willpower that’s fickle and finite. If/when it breaks, cheat meals, days, and weeks happen. Bouncing back is even harder.
  • Weak performance in the gym thanks to all the fatigue and lack of fuel. Excess cardio’s recovery load also cuts into this. Even more muscle loss.
  • Poor sleep due to the flared-up hunger hormone Ghrelin and (CNS) exhaustion — which, in turn, worsens your metabolism and fat loss. This also accelerates your muscle loss.
  • The “new normal” would prove too hard to stick to or sustain after your fat loss journey. Drastic fat-loss plan, drastic lifestyle changes.

Do you now see how all this “simple” mistake pans out?

Precisely by trying to rush your fat loss, you slow it down — and lose muscle mass, strength, and immunity…

Need I mention the loss of mental health, confidence, and sanity?

This can lead to despair → Gaining back the fat → Fretting and trying to rush-burn it again → Lo! An insidious cycle that most stay stuck in.

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So, Is the Solution Simply to Go Slower?

Yes and No.

  • Yes, because at the core, it is just that.
  • No, because “just that” can prove snail-slow and even stall your progress. There are many core nuances involved.

So far, my intention’s been to sear the ‘Yes’ in your mind — now, let’s handle the ‘No’ part of the answer…

It’s the No’s nuances that have helped me keep off the fat so far.

Photos throughout the year (of/by the author)

The Complete 360-Degree Actionable Solution For This

My fat-loss disaster set me back by years — psychologically and physically…

But out of it arose (fitness) insights and knowledge for a lifetime — which I’ve been sharing online and offline.

But disjoint bits of fat-loss knowledge aren’t truly helpful — each solved doubt births more:

How to lose body fat (optimally)? → Without losing muscle mass or strength? → While enjoying the process? → What about during fests and vacations? → How to keep off the weight for years to come? → For life?

The step-by-step nuances of sustainable fat loss can get overwhelming.

Hence, The Ultimate No-BS Fat-Loss Bundle — the all-in-1 DIY fat-loss solution I wish my own past self had.

The Ultimate No-BS Fat-Loss Bundle (Made with Canva)

With 10 Notion checklists, 2 pre-built spreadsheets, and 9 deep-dive resources, it’s the only sustainable fat-loss resource you’ll ever need. Period.

Click Here to Learn More About the Ultimate No-BS Fat-Loss Bundle.

Can’t (or Don’t Want To) Buy the Ultimate Fat-Loss Bundle (Yet)?

You don’t “need” to!

The free 5-Minute Fat-Loss Simplifier covers it all too — albeit in a brief TL;DR way. But it covers all the core fundamentals.

Think of it as a skeleton — you’ll have to figure out and fill in the meaty nuances. It’s best for the self-study and exploratory type of fat-loss aspirants.

Too Impatient To Get The 5-Minute Fat-Loss Simplifier Even?

Then, read the same in article format👇!

The Only 3 Things You Actually “Need” for Sustainable Fat-Loss
No, not cardio, intermittent fasting, or quitting carbs

I *could* summarize this into 5 tips and call it a day — but it’ll harm more than help you.

It was half-knowledge that caused my fat-loss disaster, after all!

“Little knowledge is dangerous. Half-baked understanding imbued with a confidence of finality is fatal.”
Sandeep Balakrishna

The Most Crucial Part Of This Article…

Forget the No-BS Fat-Loss Bundle. Forget The 5-Minute Simplifier. Forget the articles I’ve shared.

If there’s one thing you carry away from this article, let it be…

Slow and Steady always wins the (Fat-Loss) Race. Period.

Any product/pill/procedure that promises “fast + easy fat loss” is lying

Even if such “hacks” work in the short run, they backfire long term — be it via weight regain or adverse effects. This article goes deeper into that:

The Ugly Reality of Ripped Six-Pack Abs Very Few Reveal to You
On corrupt influencers, false hope, lethal fat-burners, shameless lies, and sustainable fat-loss

Whatever option you choose, be it…

  • The No-BS-Fat-Loss Bundle or…
  • The 5-Min Simplifier + figuring out the nuances or…
  • Complete self-study + self-made fat-loss plan + trial and error or…
  • Any other genuine (lasting) fat-loss guide/product…

Go Slow

Because Slow is Smooth and Smooth is Fast with fat-loss — and life.

Godspeed with your fat-loss journey!


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